Welcome! This site is a work in progress, so please bear with me.
This is a blog that I am starting to talk about my boyfriends transition. When he first talked to me about his transition, I needed help. I needed people that were going through the same thing I was, so I could hash out my feelings with a complete stranger with no bias or personal feelings in the matter. I needed someone that would give advice based on me, and not on him. There are plenty of resources for transgender people out there – and I’m not saying that I’m not one. If you are trans and you need someone to talk to, I am 100% here for you.
But, I am mainly starting this as a resource for people like me. The partner of a transgendered person. When I first learned about my boyfriends true self, I was looking for something like this. A resource, or community, stories or some perspective that I was not alone in what I was experiencing. There was an abundance of resources for trans people – but next to none for the partners of them. This is what I’m hoping this blog will turn in to. A community of people who are going through this. A community of people wanting to help themselves, and are willing to help others. A community of people willing to give advice, share their own perspective, and belong.